In my court proceedings there were alleged events, alleged behavior or to put it easier, my ex basically lied in order to get custody of our daughter. He is not only hurting me but my daughter has so many issues because of what he is doing it would make a real person puke. Needless to say I have medical records, transcripts between my ex and I, statements from witness' and even from my Xe's other "baby mama" showing the fact that he has exhibited the same behavior in their case as well with the same allegations towards her, the medical issues that my daughters sister has had that are so ridiculous and resulting from his negligence ( when was the last time you knew someone who had Scarlett fever, me... never!) and I need to clear this up so that hopefully the fact that his a douche baggery and all that I petitioned for is just, and he be reprimanded for the violations he committed.
Patty M
Do whatever your attorney says.
alialoggi
Are you blaming him for you contracting scarlett fever (really, its common, its strep throat with a rash and I've had it). He can say whatever he wants, but it wont go anywhere without any proof, so why are you so worried about this? Either what he is saying about you is true (and then you will lose custody), or he is lying and nothing will come of this.
SKH82
Oh, I have recently been in that boat, honey! I left my husband because of drugs, alcohol, and mental disorders that he was not taking care of, wasn't being honest with the doctors about his drug use and his drug use was working against his anti-depressants. Looooooong story somewhat short, my family and I did an intervention in July trying to get him some mental help, he refused, so in August I gave him a letter right before our marriage counseling session saying I was leaving. Left beginning of September, filed for legal separation to get debts protected and child support/alimony in line (I was a stay at home mom) and he filed back for divorce and wanting full custody of my daughter. I filed an emergency ex parte order for child custody because of his issues, and it was signed by the judge where I had full custody and he had supervised visitation only until the hearing two weeks later (the supervised visitation he never utilized). In the courtroom, right before the hearing, his lawyer gives me five affidavits from random people saying he was a good dad (three from people that lived over 100 miles away...???). I didn't have any. Needless to say, the judge ordered that he could have joint custody, Thursdays through Sunday nights alternating weekends with Wednesday through Thursday night on off weeks for visitation. I was livid, could not believe it. Ended up getting some 30-something affidavits done by close friends, family, and professionals (doctors, teachers, and even our marriage counselor!) stating their concern for my husband and his depression. Filed a motion for the issue to go back to court, and at the hearing, he got slammed. He got his visitation taken away down to Sats and Sundays only, daytime only, no overnights, has to pay and take a hair follicle drug and alcohol test every 30 days, has to pay me over a grand in child support and alimony each month, AND he had to sign over medical releases for both his psychiatrist and our marriage counselor to confer with each other regarding his mental health care (psychiatrist doesn't know much, marriage counselor knew EVERYTHING). So far, he hasn't taken any of his ordered drug tests, so chances are he is going to get down to supervised visitation down the road. ANYWHO, the point I'm getting at here, is that he may have gotten what he wants now, but the truth will come out. Get written affidavits from anyone and everyone you know, he knows, doctors, teachers, etc. I had so much faith in this saying during my troubles: "A lie has speed, but truth has endurance." He may be able to lie to get what he wants now, but it will hurt him ten-fold down the line when you start providing evidence, statements, medical records, etc. Start gathering your documentation, take it back to court, and you'll be just fine! Good luck to you--been there, done that, NOT FUN! :(
Paul
Write out; I SAID WRITE OUT, the whole story, proof it, rewrite, etc., etc. Take it to a female atty if possible and let her/him read it. Writing it out ensures thoroughness and they can read faster than you can talk, and written statement will be better organized.
Take copies of med records or anything else you can come up with to support your case. That's anything and everything; better to let your atty toss it out than you.
Good luck
Al B
Your attorney should be able to handle all of this for you and you may be worrying yourself for nothing. If you are doing this by yourself because you can't afford an attorney go to legal aid and get one.
Dear Jane...
call him up and ask him why he lied in court...record it all. It's perfectly legal.
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