Okay to start out my ex very rarely pays child support and doesn't work cause he uses excuses "there is no work" but he will not go and get a job outside the family business b/c he will get a U/A and most likely fail. he has a huge criminal record and I am clean I have never been arrested in my life and I am almost 29. So anyways long story short I am the custodial parent and live in TX and he lives in MT I moved due to the fact he was threatening to kill me so I left with our kids for safety. I am a stay-at home mom, I never go out to bars, never drink, never done drugs in my life compared to him he is or was a major pot smoker. My husband works his butt off to pay the bills and comes home from work. We are a typical family that does homework and adore my kids. Well Yesterday a social worker talked to my oldest daughter b/c she was called and I know it was my ex b/c I have been trying to get him to help out with health insurance with our 2 girls we have together b/c our oldest fell off the trampoline and hurt her ankle but it was nothing to go to the hospital about. She limps around here and there but I have seen her walk and jump on it so I know it couldn't be to bad. But I wanted to get her looked at when it happened just in case but had no insurance and it was a Sunday so of course that means the ER. But I didn't even have the money for that. So I did what a mom does and nurture her child and watch her, within 20 minutes of her falling off she was walking just fine so I new it was nothing. Well stupid me still wanted him to help out w/ insurance and was trying to talk to him and he made excuses about everything why he cant help. My husband now usually just carries insurance on them just so we do not have to deal with him, but due to the economy he lost his job but searched everyday until he found one but didnt make enough to cover insurance....so yesterday I was accused of neglecting my child medical attention to her "broken, swollen, bruised foot!!!!!!" Umm hello I never told anyone her foot looked like that and ev1 that knows me knows that I am a great mother and very few people new about my daughters foot. So I know it was him and his girlfriend that did this just to be immature and I find this very wrong!!! I didn't do anything to deserve this. he is the one that needs CPS called on him b/c he is drunk all the time when my kids are there and on top of it he throws a kegger every summer and calls it a "holiday party" for my kids but it invites a whole bunch of people over and they all get drunk.
So I don't know what to do, I know I can eventually prove its him, but I want him to pay for what he has done! My kids and me are very upset about this and my husband is crushed at these accusations. I am sorry so long but will someone please let me know what I can do?!?!?
Thanks Nick for your opinion, and as for this guy that is utting me down b/c of my name you are very immature and are missing the point and I am sure you did not even read what I wrote. This is my life and future. Just b/c my name says stop animal pro-creation means nothing about what I have said, I just dont think we should be over populated!
look I do not need you negatives....he got his criminal background after we were married not while we were married.
Nick
Well, if you'd been negatively impacted by his accusations, you might be able to sue for slander or defamation of character. You'd have to ask a legal professional for the specifics, though.
John
Go on the Steve Wilkos show. He'll get to the bottom of this!
INTERNET HATE MACHINE CXXXVI
Your name coupled with you being accused of child neglect convinces me you're a typlical liberal douche from the Pacific Northwest. Those people are idiots. They'll live in a tree from a month to save some stupid owl from losing its nest, but don't give a crap about people.
ouragon
In TX if your kids are uninsured you can sign them up for CHIPS. Then the state will seek repayment from the deadbeat. What can you do about him? Well, you married and procreated with a man who has an extensive criminal history. Did you think he would suddenly become father of the year? So, in my opinion, you can get over it.
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