to make a long story short cancer missed many different times surgery botched cava vena filter put in leg swelled up c-diff infection hospital very weak given chemo killed 7 days later
family members do not want to get medical records even kind of brag were not going to sue! do not want to talk about when i bring it up I can't do anything since i can't get records & say they will block me from ever doing anything all while statue of limitation slips by. I don't want autopsy just investigated what can i do if family says were not going to sue even mean make fun of me! Please help if can i already tried convincing em but it does not work & it bothers me!
Axel W
First how old are you?
If you are over eighteen you have a right, as the next of kin for your dear mother, to press charges against the docotors and hospital. Talk to a lawyer like Mark E Salamoane, Jim Sokolove, or any number of lawyers you see on TV or Billboards.
Your family shouldn't make fun of a womans death from cancer, or ignore the plight of her closest relative, Her child.
If you are not 18, it pains me to say that your say is limited according to the law of our country. However, don't desapir the statute of limitations can be up to five years. See a lawyer anyways, regardless of age, they will listen to you if your case involves a serious death.
great keep writingnevergive up
if you can find out how she got cancer it would be better 4 you
now just concentrate on you get checked regularly 4 yourself.
remember never send anyone 2 that doctor again i know i wouldn't also know your mom is in a better place.
she's probably talking w/ my sis angel having a blast
watching us send notes. sorry about your mom.
MamaB
Dear "Fever," I am so sorry for your loss. You must be hurting.
You don't say how old you are, but you sound like you are a teen.
There are patterns to how people grieve after a loss like yours: numbness, shock, denial, anger, acceptance, recovery (there are a couple different ideas among the experts, see link below).
Everyone goes through it differently at different speeds and different times. I think you are experiencing some extreme anger - you want to have someone be at fault for the loss of your dear mother. Plus, anger is easier for some people to deal with than the despair of losing your mom.
My mother died when I was 23 and I wanted to sue every doctor or hospital she had ever seen! But eventually (years) I realized that sometimes bad things happen to good people and that it can't always be explained.
Cancer is a complicated and difficult disease. There are so many things that doctors and hospitals have to figure out. I am willing to bet that they did all they could, even if you're not sure. Unless you're a doctor, you probably can't know everything about how complications can develop even if no mistakes were made.
This may be why your relatives do not share your thoughts. They may be older and wiser, they may realize that you are speaking from grief more than anything else right now. They should never laugh at you,however!! Your feelings are real and you have every right to them.
Try reading some of the info on the website listed below and think about meeting with a grief counselor.
Best wishes in your own recovery.
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