Long story short: I was dating this girl for a month. She was my first girlfriend and I thought I was in love. Turned out she didn't feel the same. She just wanted me for sperm. As soon as she got pregnant she left me and it's been a battle for the last 5 years to keep myself in my daughter's life.
The mom has around 40 charges of contempt against her. I filed for full custody in October and we're just waiting on the hearing for my daughter's Guardian ad Litem to make the final recommendation to the judge that I have full custody. (She's already told me that's what she's going to recommend)
So my daughter has VERY mild asthma. I don't believe she has it at all, but I don't want to take any chances. She has a bottle of pills she's supposed to take at bedtime, but her mother goes back and forth about whether she sends the bottle. Frequently she claims that she sent pills in a baggy, but I never get the bags. Later she'll text me all mad that my daughter missed her pills! I've told her time and time again to just send the friggin bottle, but she does what she pleases. I think she's trying to set me up for medical negligence or maybe she's just mad about the court stuff. Who knows. She's insane.
Once again she didn't send the bottle and I'm pretty steamed about it. Does this sound valid to you guys or am I just nitpicking because this woman irritates me SO much?
Chantelle: That's a great point! I could probably get a prescription from her doctor so that I can fill a bottle for my house. However, I think she's only taking them for a temporary period of time. I'm not sure, though, because it's hard to get ahold of her doctor and the mother certainly is no help in giving proper instructions. You're right, though, that it's HER responsibility to do these things. That's why it's amusing that she thinks she can set me up for medical negligence. It irritates me, though, that she's risking my daughter's health to play these stupid games.
Also to Chantelle: Yes, I am working. I am financially stable. I live in a 3 bedroom home with my wife and our daughter where my older daughter has her own room. We live in a family oriented town with a GREAT school district. My wife ADORES my daughter and my daughter ADORES my wife. They're best friends and my wife teaches my older daughter to have respect and follow dreams (my wife is currently in law school on track to be a GREAT attorney)
My ex, however, lives with her current boyfriend, their son, the mother's sister, the sister's boyfriend, and who knows who else is in and out of that house. She doesn't work. She lives on welfare and she still dresses my daughter in rags.. I pay child support AND buy all of my daughter's clothes so that she doesn't have to wear filth to school. I want to let her play sports and her mother won't let her enroll in ANYTHING just because I want it for my daughter. It upsets my daughter to see other girls playing soccer or softball in the park and kn
Elizabeth
I'd drive over and pick up the bottle myself
Chantelle
It sounds like she's trying to set you up so that she gets full custody of your daughter. Truth is, if right now she has her the majority of the time and SHE fills your daughters prescriptions... it's HER responsibility to send the pills. If she hasn't sent the pills, even with you telling her to, it's her fault. I'd talk to her doctor about the situation and explain that you'll need pills at your place too so her mom can't get you for any type of medical negligence.
Also, if you're working, financially stable, and have no criminal background, things are already looking up for you. This woman sounds nasty and shouldn't have a child in her custody. Good luck with the hearing. I hope you get custody of your little girl.
Orignal From: Would you get irritated if someone insisted on doing exactly the OPPOSITE of what they'd been asked to do?
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